Everyone wants it bigger than bigger ,faster than faster ,more shocking than shocking.
Buddha said ,everyone is speared by an arrow when they are born. First of all ,we must admit that we got hurt ,and are to die. but most of us ask ,where the arrow came from ,what colour the arrow is ,who made the arrow ,with what ,etc etc..
and then ,they have the second arrow ,third arrow ,and forth arrow.
Slow down.Let's see our own speared body. It's bleeding. It's already too late.This is the only way to avoid the second arrow.
Slow down.Buying a huge house doesn't cure your injure.It's not the answer.